Rested Development

The I's have It

2009-12-10T21:29:00.000-08:00

When leading a team to excel daily there have been hundreds if not thousands of blogs, books, and recommendations on how to lead effectively. They come in all shapes and sizes of steps and directions. I, too, have my own thoughts and have narrowed it down to just a few key points.

Informed – when your team is truly informed and all aspects of your vision are transparent and understood, the first step is complete. Without a true understanding of why a vision is important your team just doesn’t have enough information to begin the creative process on their own. Information engages the right-brain so that the left-brain can begin to tactically plan.

Improvement – Your desire to make things better and shatter prior achievements is a key indication of your leadership. No desire, no improvement.

Inspired – your team must be inspired and engaged to achieve. This is when your “influencing” skills are needed. Inspiration includes a “cause” to motivate the team to excel. If your team believes in the vision for the reasons beyond simply “doing it” the power of the human spirit engages and passion is born.

Nelson Mandela
Indira Gandhi
Mother Teresa
Martin Luther King
You

There is nothing more powerful than a passionate human.

Just Who Are You?

2009-12-03T19:02:00.000-08:00

I wrote this blog sometime ago but recent blogs from some of my favorite TR bloggers Chris Reed and Jon Gillespie only served to bring it back up. It is somewhat of a rant but I believe a check in on your values and a confirmation that your online brand doesn’t need “management” if your values are aligned in all aspects of your life. Feel free to disagree, as a matter of fact I welcome a counterpoint!

Much has been spoken about the separation between our personal and professional lives online. You have heard all of the suggestions and advice Here are just a couple.

Beware what you post as everyone can see it and you don’t want it to adversely affect your professional career.

Social Media can be abused by posting parts of your personal life that might bring your professional qualities into question.

I could go on and on but you get the picture….you are on stage and what you communicate, show, and display can have negative impacts on your goals, aspirations, and desires.

Here at TR, one of our guiding communications is about being the “authentic and unapologetic you” Now if you are living that principal the above presents an oxymoron. If you are being the authentic and unapologetic you what exactly is it you are doing that can be placed in this media format that you wouldn’t want others to see. Is your personal life so careless and dangerous that you wouldn’t want someone to know something about you?

Take some of the icons of social media presence that I admire such as Chris Brogan, Gary Vaynerchuk, Joni Doolan, Amanda Hite, Guy Kawasaki….I could go on. Do you think they censor their communication, posts, and photos worried about what you may learn about them? I think not. When they are living their brand do you think they decide not to do something because it may adversely affect their perceived image to us little people? I think not.

So is your brand different in social media than you live daily? If it is, you have to ask yourself, what am I doing? Do you think our role models in this media format create the image we want to see or do you think they just live their lives knowing their values, connections, business, and relationships ARE who they appear to be anywhere just not in social media. I think, yes!

So if you find yourself thinking, I better not write this, I better not post that photo, I better not display myself this way or I could get in trouble….well, maybe you aren’t ready to develop a brand worthy of this vehicle. Your values are your values and they aren’t dictated by what others might see, they are dictated by who you want to be. Are you a Tiger Woods just waiting to be uncovered?

Don’t edit your photos, don’t edit your writing…..edit your values and be your TRUE authentic and unapologetic self.

2010 is here, now!

2009-12-01T05:10:00.000-08:00

It’s resolution time and some people may already be producing those resolutions that will be quickly ignored when the New Year vices are in full swing but I wanted to put out a reminder to resolve to do things a little differently. Here are some tips based on what I have learned from this year….either I missed out and wanted to do them or I did them and it worked!

Make Social Media goals part of your 2010 and I don’t mean add 10,000 followers on your Twitter account. Make a resolution to increase your network by a certain amount of “meaningful” connections. It includes, meeting people online, working with them, and if at all possible make sure a percentage of them you physically get in front of and get to know! (Online Dates don’t count)

Find a social media platform you feel comfortable and blog, blog, blog, blog! Don’t be afraid, don’t worry about your grammar, don’t worry about whether people will “get it”, don’t worry that people won’t feel the same way you do, just don’t worry. The best way to solidify your strengths is to teach others about them. You will do better yourself and you will help someone else get better. (Call me, you can guest post for me anytime! TR is sooooo coool) Oh, and thanks FOHBOH.com….haven’t had free time since you got me started!

Find someone that is scared to death of the whole social media thing and help them to understand it. Introduce them to all of your connections, e-mail them blogs that will have meaning to them, invite them to a Tweet Up, do something that brings someone else into the world that you have learned and taken so much from…didn’t someone help you get into this wonderful land? (@sexythinker, thanks for making me learn to type weird $%^& like @sexythinker….who would have thought)

Attend a conference in your area of interest. Only the coolest people go to conferences and the relationships developed there create the best networks of support and future opportunities. (Read Chris Reed’s “Badge of Honor” for some validation of this point-hang in their Joni…..I will be there!)

Create another stream of income….no matter how small. Consult, create, coach, develop, open….hell deliver papers on Sunday morning if you have too. Find a way to enhance your current income base. Trust me, a couple more bucks coming in is a great motivation to create more bucks coming in. (Plus you can give yourself the title “entrepreneur”…Freakin’ Pat Katz…..he put the multi in multiple streams of income)

Join or participate in an organization that helps feed other people beside yourself. There is nothing more fulfilling then helping someone else. Grab your best friend, find the local mission, kitchen, soup line and SERVE. God blessed you with food, now bless someone else with it. (Thanks Faith Mission and Share Our Strength!)

I could type more…..
What other ideas do you have for New Year’s resolutions that aren’t the norm like lose weight, stop drinking, etc., etc., etc.

I need more! 2010 is the year of great things….let’s start now!

Be Real or the authentic and unapologetic you - talent revolution

2009-08-28T05:38:00.001-07:00

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Values Based Leadership

2009-06-04T13:22:00.000-07:00

I got the chance a couple of weeks ago to attend the CHART Regional meeting in Louisville, KY at the enormous and expansive Papa John’s Corporate Campus. What a great opportunity to network and I got to meet some “internet” faces. It is always so cool to come face to face with people you blog and twitter with daily. No pun intended but people are so much larger than life in person!

I got to meet Jeff McLanahan, and Terry Mayhem from Papa John’s. Also one of my favorite e-learning gurus from DiscoverLink, Jeff Tenut. Then to top it off, in walks John Schnatter, Papa John himself and he looks just like he does on his commercials. Right behind him is Jude Thompson, COO/President at Papa John's. Now I gotta be honest, I didn’t expect a ton from these two…..small room, no real big wigs in site besides them so I expected the courteous welcome and exit stage right. But what came next was a lesson in leadership centered on VALUES and developing people. Yep, values and people. I love those two things more than anything and I was fixin’ to get inspired. I couldn’t stop my pencil from writing! Let me share just a few of the quotes that came out of his stories and there were a lot of them!

“To get from the #3 pizza sales to #2 it is going to take our people”

“My job is to get 1000 people pulling on the same rope”

“If everyone wins they get excited about themselves and produce more”

“Anxiety is contagious and that’s not something you want to catch”

“If people get isolated they stop communicating”

“It’s good to be on a winning team”

“We are partners”

“We can double team things when we work together”

“I don’t know how business went from 2+2=4 to equaling 8 but you can bet that math caused our current economy”

“If you don’t take care of the peasant farmers they will rise up and burn down the castle you live in”

“I haven’t laid anyone off, it was expensive, but I haven’t laid anyone off.”

Did you hear what I heard?
1. It’s the people stupid
2. It’s not about you
3. If you are confused about what to do, refer to number one!

And while you are it, tell them the truth….

Better Ingredients, Better Pizza

John Schnatter and his team believe it and it is self-evident in his team’s body language and engagement. The next time I need a quick pizza, I am going to give his product a try. Mission accomplished John and thanks for reinforcing my belief that values and a focus on people can happen in a major corporation while you make a ton of cash!

Walk with a Purpose

2009-03-11T18:13:00.000-07:00

So, I have been on a restaurant binge lately also known as my own version of a personal stimulus package. I’ve hit every restaurant that I enjoy both chain and independent. I’ve gone to each one of them alone, blackberry on fire, and watching how the leadership in those restaurants has chosen to lead their team. If the managers and the owners of these establishments knew they were being watched like a professional quarterback in a two minute warning down by 1 point they would be careful of how they might be perceived but then hey, I digress…on to my point.

What I have seen is a sad display of “walking about” accomplishing nothing, waiting for something to actually happen like maybe a fire will start and they might be able to douse it with their own brand of restaurant management.

Here is what it looks like…host, bar, disappear, bar, host, disappear…disappear, bar, bar, host, and disappear. Who the heck knows what they are doing when they disappear? Are there cash registers or guests in the back of some restaurants I don’t know about?

Why not follow some kind of path that improves the business? I’ve heard it called…

15 Minute Rotation
The Critical Path
The Moments of Truth
The Guest Path

Call it what you want but why not touch every aspect of the business while you are walking through your business? I mean, we’re fighting for every guest and subsequently their return visit, why wouldn’t you check every potential opportunity your guest might experience in your business in an attempt to exceed their expectations?

Try this….

Host – make sure they are smiling and presenting themselves the way you would present yourself – thank guests and staff
Servers – dressed sharp, engaging the guest, selling, refilling, bussing, hit the table tops and check with guests to make sure a return visit is all but inevitable – thank guests and staff
Bar – fast drinks, clean glasses, friendly face, building business, cost control – thank guests and staff
Restrooms – clean, smell great, fully stocked with supplies
Outside – lights on, first impression great, thanking guests coming and going
Back of the House – awesome product, clean environment, food safety, thank staff

Repeat, and then repeat again, then again, again, again….you get the idea.

Now you can expand your stopping points, add bullet points to check on, set anticipated time frames, you name it. If you have a deficiency in your business and want to improve it, put your restaurant leadership on it, over and over again.

So you’re open…say ten hours a day, it takes 30 minutes to complete one of these rotations, you can complete 20 of these rotations a day. For sake of conversation let’s say things come up and you can only get 15 rotations actually done through your restaurant. You have decided that fast drinks delivered under 3 minutes is your focus and you put your leadership on it by checking it 15 times a day with either positive reinforcement or coaching to improve….how long could it possibly take to accomplish your focus?

You get results where you put focus….
Walk with a purpose…..
Make your restaurant better tomorrow, by engaging it today….

Your Stock is way down!

2009-02-25T20:45:00.000-08:00

There is a ton of stock on the market right now that is worth a lot less than it was just a few short months ago and it still have a strong long term value. There is also stock on the market worth a lot less than a few months ago and it should be worth a lot less. It never was worth anything to begin with, it was overinflated in value, and never should have had the value it earned.

Now what kind of person are you?
-A stock with a current low value because of market condition waiting to climb again?
-A stock with a current low value because of market condition and you will never gain value again because you weren’t worth anything to begin with?

Here is what I know….

Over 3 million jobs have been lost in the last six months and unemployment rates are expected to top 10% in some areas. There are more than a few employees to chose from just like your broker knows there is quite a bit of stock out there that can be bought cheaply that will eventually rise above it’s current purchase price.

Now if you are a pessimist you are thinking, great I have to do whatever my boss tells me to do because he can just replace me with someone else tomorrow, right? Well, no, replacements have cost and your boss doesn’t want to incur additional cost right now because it will take unnecessary dollars from the coffers that are better left earning interest. However if the cost of replacing you produces more ROI in the long term, the boss may be willing to make the investment in a different stock….is the picture getting clearer now?

If you are the optimist, you understand that the best undervalued stock you can own is your own stock…and that’s where you come in! You are already employed, you already have value, and you can increase your own value by understanding how to produce the best ROI.

Do you produce additional sales with your skills?
Do you produce additional profit because of your systems and leadership?
Do you improve the productivity of your team by your presence?
Do your guests come back more often because of your presence in the business?
Do your ideas and improvements create value for the business environment?
Are you helping those around you to get better because you care more about their success than your own?

The good news is that if you invest in your own value now and even diversify your skills by doing more, when this thing turns around, your stock price will be go up again, and then you will be in the driver’s seat for best value. Now that you have had that paradigm shift…..

When all is said and done isn’t it really about just being great no matter what the economic conditions? I mean let’s face it; if you had no value to begin with you probably aren’t reading this blog anyway? If you base the level and/or quality of work you do on how tough the economy is then you probably should find a job in government where you are less likely to be whacked!

There is no better time than now to give everything you have….

Old School Ways

2009-02-18T17:48:00.000-08:00

Today on FOHBOH I read Jerry Heilpern’s post, To Survive We Must Think Differently, and the reason behind my blog is not to agree or disagree with Jerry. I respect Jerry’s opinion and his professional background and accomplishments. His isn’t the first blog post I have read to tell me that based on the current state of the union that we have to do things differently or we are dead in the water. He says that we will have to get rid of mozzarella sticks and marinara in exchange for trendy dishes and interiors and ambiences are going to have to be new, inventive, and inviting.

This past week in another blog discussion by James Kohn, Today's Rant: Deciding which new technology is right for you, Michael Atkinson stated that, “Doing the basics and just "running a restaurant" isn't enough.” Again my quote here is not to discount Michael’s opinion as his professional resume and accomplishments are at the very least impressive, it is only to challenge what I believe is a current trend in thinking.

Now if you know anything about me, I run a bunch of those “chain” restaurants that are the brunt of “independent” jokes and rhetoric about conveyor belt and microwave delivery systems, but here is my concern that I can’t seem to get my head around.

The Hamburger has been a staple of the restaurant business for quite some time now, followed by French fries, salad, chicken sandwiches, tall draft beer, chicken wings, chicken tenders, and the that ole stand by for kids, Macaroni and Cheese.

Can’t I just focus on delivering those items really well?

If my restaurant is clean, my prices are fair, my service is strong, and I give my guests what they want, can’t I be successful in this challenging environment also?

Even in a tough market Buffalo Wild Wings earnings increased 23% in the fourth quarter and McDonald’s comps grew over 5% and their food, service, and ambience aren’t exactly what I would call trendy or cutting edge?

Go ahead, burst my bubble and tell me that I have to change the way I do business. I think the only thing I have to change is making sure I deliver what the guest expects and value IS a strong position.

Today, isn't value defined by our guests and not by us?

They are Freakin’ Out!

2009-02-13T14:08:00.000-08:00

Some of the most important lessons I have learned in leadership, management, and organizational development have come from the people that I work with every day. Just yesterday I was having a conversation with one of my chief “feelers” on the team. (Mind you being a “feeler” is a good thing. If you don’t have one or aren’t one you are leaving a lot of people behind in your team) He told me that combined with the latest company announcement about an internal struggle, my continued demand for higher, faster, quicker results, and the push to put every dollar on the bottom line, as well as perfect delivery for the guest, I may have pushed some overboard.

Initially, I thought, crap this is one of the things I always fear! Did I lose them and they have now labeled me as just another corporate hack or is this just their reaction to another “bar raising” and they will be ok.

High expectation and demand for results
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Can you help me complete my resume?

Note the fine line between these two issues. Here is where the rubber meets the road and you can set yourself apart in your leadership and continue to develop your credibility and long term effectiveness in the eyes of your team.

First - Identify everyone that is spending time on this fine line
Second – Stop what you are doing and go face to face with each one of them
Third – Explain that you know you have pushed them to this level and that they may be struggling to understand or even angry about it
Fourth – Tell them why you are asking for so much and the importance to the overall mission and their long term success and most importantly, you believe in them
Fifth – Ask them where they see the obstacles in overcoming the expectation and actually help them to remove at least one of those obstacles
Sixth – thank them for being honest, thank them for taking on the challenge, and make sure they understand you couldn’t do what you are doing with out them

Engage them and don’t be afraid of their pushback. If your team isn’t pushing back on you, you aren’t pushing forward on them.

Your view may not always be the best…..another leadership road hazard!

2009-02-11T20:24:00.001-08:00

This leadership hazard can be best described in the story of the happy beach swimmer. If you are on one of those crowded Southern California beaches with your friend soaking up the rays you have a limited view of things going on around you. The people next to you, the kids playing in the surf….the immediate dangers seem well within your control.

Down the beach a way their sits a lifeguard tower….Now the lifeguard has a much different view of the beach. Not only can they see you, the people next to you, and the kids playing in the surf, they can also see people swimming in the water, surfboards coming in fast, cars coming down the beach. They definitely have a “bigger” picture of the dangers you could be facing. They can even see people nearing danger and be in the water quickly to protect you from strong tides and undertows.

Now look out a little farther in the water up higher and you will see the Beach Patrol helicopter. Think about their view for a minute. They see you, the people next to you, the kids playing in the surf, surfboards, cars, sharks, and boats and their picture gets even “bigger” than you and the lifeguard combined. More advanced warning of impending doom to keep you safe.

So to avoid this leadership hazard in your business you need only to know that your view of the business hazards aren’t only what you can see but what those around and above you can see as well. In most cases just recognizing who has a better view of the business and accepting help can be a very successful leadership tactic.

If you are a server, in most cases, your view is limited to the scope of your tables.
If you are a department manager, your view is that of your shift or team
If you are a General Manager, you can see the whole business across all departments
If you are an Owner an even bigger perspective
If you are a Multi-Unit operator or Consultant you have numerous businesses to see and your view grows even larger
If you are a CEO, you see sometimes 100’s of operations giving you a clear view of different operating styles, results, and approaches.

If you are looking to avoid the dangers of the beach, sometimes you just have to find the highest vantage point. Don’t be afraid to look up and ask those above you what they see. Better safe than sorry!

Shake that Coke machine!

2009-02-04T20:01:00.003-08:00

Maybe you are there, maybe you have been there, maybe you are on your way there but when I was much younger, a food server, married, wife going to school, not much money, I had to go to the Laundromat weekly. I saved all my quarters from my tips to do my wash. As I narrowed down the load of clothes that had to be done I would have a couple of quarters left over and in the back corner of the room sat a Coke machine. The thought of a cold can of Coke just seem to hit the spot.

I walk up, drop my two quarters in, push the big red button and wait for the sound of the tumbling can through the mechanism and the loud thud of the can hitting the delivery chute. I can already picture myself tapping the top of the can lightly to settle the bubbles so when I open it there is no spray of sticky soda everywhere.

But instead, nothing…..no coke, no coins in the return slot, no out of that selection pick something else…just nothing. I am pissed to say the least.

Over at the desk I see the young operator with his legs propped up on the desk in his laundry supervisory posture. You probably already know where this is going.

“Hey man, your coke machine ate my money!”

“Sorry dude, we don’t own those machines. There is a number on the front of the machine you can call to report the money you lost, but good luck with that.”

I head back over to that Coke machine even more pissed, ready to take out my anger on that inanimate bad boy. I shake that machine, rocking it back and forth; waiting for it to dislodge my 50 cent can of pleasure! Nothing…I shove my hand around the flap hoping to get my fingers around the can that I own. Again, nothing, more anger….I am in a bad mood, ready to light up whoever comes in contact with me.

This ever happen to you?

-Ever had a guest come to your restaurant and pay you money for their meal and you didn’t deliver exactly what they ordered?
-Ever had a server or manager act indifferent towards a guest when they missed a few of the service steps?
>-Have you ever fallen short of handling a guest situation 100% because you were tired, just not in the game that day?

Well, you are the Coke machine, I am your guest, you took my 50 cents, and I want what I want and I want it now. Get ready for the next step; I am fixing to SHAKE you till I get my Coke or worse, until I get my money back.

It’s a tough economy, less money to go around, and the money I spend with you may be all I have. Don’t make me mad, just let me pay you, and give me my Coke. I did pay for it!

Nobody cares about my future!

2009-01-28T16:02:00.000-08:00

What do you do if you have a boss that isn’t engaging your strengths, recognizing your true value, giving you the direction you need to move forward, or in general being the true leader that you would be if you were doing his job? Yeah, ok. I wish I had a nickel for every time someone got caught in the trap of not taking responsibility for their own career advancement. Waiting for your boss to figure it out and create an environment conducive to your future?

”So, how's that working for you?”

If your answer to the above question is “Not so well” then do something different.
- Recognize that the only person who will get you anywhere is you. Stop being a victim to your own lack of success.
- Get engaged and do something about it. Stop complaining that the boss isn’t doing their job.

So, what's your area of responsibility in your current position? Is it service, hiring, training, food quality, food or beverage costs, cleanliness? Surely, you've been assigned a specific area of responsibility.

Is your area of responsibility performing at its optimum level? Is it an example of how your department should be executing?

If your answer is yes – then go help another department or area. Engage that leader and help them get to an exceptional level of execution. Do it to help, not to prove wrong. Assist, bust your butt, do whatever you can to get someone else winning the way you are and expect nothing in return. Get them promoted! The more people waving your flag saying how great you are, the better.

If your answer is no – well, there's your problem! If you can’t get your own area right, why would you expect your boss to do anything different? Get a coach, find a mentor, read, research, engage your team, and do whatever it takes to get your team pumping out the results that are expected.

Initiative is one of the most important qualities I look for in an exceptional leader. You have to be able to engage yourself first before you can expect someone else to engage you. I would much rather try to get a horse to slow down then keep kicking it to run!

And don’t get me wrong, I am not telling you to go it alone…..if you don’t have the answers, ask for help and keep asking until you find someone willing to help. If people keep telling you no when you ask for help, you are asking the wrong people.

You haven’t asked me yet.

You might as well quit!

2009-01-24T03:36:00.000-08:00

So you are the Manager, General Manager, Area Director or Multi-Unit Supervisor in the restaurant industry. When questioned about what your job description may be the answers that I hear most often are….

-Protect the image and standards
-Deliver a great product to every guest, every day
-Ensure the financial success and long term viability of the business

Similar to the canned responses that you might hear when you ask a police officer why he or she does what they do, “to protect and serve”. I hate that answer.

However when you ask these same people what they love about their jobs they will tell you….

-Teaching the employees and managers how to be successful
-The interaction with the guests and providing them with a great experience
-The pace, atmosphere, energy, and competition

So the difference between their job description and what they love to do are not aligned. The one thing that I do know is that if you aren’t doing something you love, it becomes mundane, repetitive, and well hell you end up not doing it very well. So you might as well quit. I know someone famous said if you find a job that you love it will never seem like work! So how do you combat the gap between the job and what you love? Well align them!

What exactly is it you are teaching that creates your love for the job?-The standards, specs, and service expectations!
When you are engaged with the guest, what actually are you doing?-You are validating that the overall value and experience are being delivered by your people because the standards, specs, and expectations are being met!
Why do you love the pace, atmosphere, energy, and competition so much?-Because you get a chance to deliver the standards, specs, and service expectations better than anyone else!

So, if you find yourself bored with the day to day operations like, follow up, order taking, line checks, and repetitive processes that happen everyday in the restaurant business either quit and go do something else you love or realize that those processes are exactly what make this job so great. Be the basics of the business and the restaurant business is alive and in living color!

Funny thing happened on my way to work

2009-01-18T19:11:00.000-08:00

So I am headed to one of my restaurants and I am reflecting on why I can’t seem to make the headway fast enough to make this the best operation in the industry. I think to myself, “Self, you have been doing the same thing you always do in these situations and it works, what is happening here?”

Being the introspective fellow I am I mull it over and over and over. Can’t find it in that big ole noggin of mine. Then the revelation comes, I’ll just ask. So one by one I talk to the managers, the hourlies, and heck anyone I can pose with the question, “What am I doing wrong here?” Slowly but surely I begin to hear the same notion…”Andy, we are doing our best too and that isn’t good enough!”

Uh oh….I don’t know what to do, they don’t know what to do…now we are in big trouble. So all my vast years of mentoring, coaching, debate, and thought provoking leadership leads me to this, “I better start at the beginning and see where I went wrong.”

Question: Do we have enough food coming in to the building?
Answer: We have been struggling with that issue. Our orders don’t seem consistent and we have to shop locally to keep up with what we are short on.
Diagnosis: No one knows the ordering system process and I hadn’t bothered to check and make sure they knew how to order, I assumed

Question: Do we know how to make the food that matches the recipes and the pictures?
Answer: Well Andy we are making it just like the last guy showed us, right?
Diagnosis: Food Quality has eroded over time with the lack of follow up and training and I was silently approving of the plates I saw every time I visited, I assumed they were going over this

Question: Do we have enough people and do they know how to serve the guest?
Answer: We have the most tenured staff writing our schedules and they do a pretty good job of getting people in here and we really don’t get that many guest complaints
Diagnosis: Trouble here, the inmates are running the asylum and the standard of guest service is being measured by how many people are upset versus how many are happy. I assumed everyone knew what to do with the guest.

I have fallen into the leadership trap of ASSUMPTION. I assumed that the institutional knowledge that existed would keep the business running strong. I assumed that the management knew exactly what to do and were just performing poorly. I assumed that everyone knew exactly how important the guest was and took care of them with high expectations.

Yeah, Yeah, I know, assuming makes an “ass” out of “u” and “me”

Cure: Back to the Basics of what we serve, who we serve, and who serves it. Bring your team together, honestly communicate where you as the leader went wrong, and start over.

People don’t wake up and think to themselves, “Boy I am going to do a really crappy job today” they just get led that way. Learn from my mistake. There are only three kinds of people in the world:

Don’t know – teach them (this is most of them!)
Don’t care – move on, nothing to see here!
Can’t do – move on but even in my experience in the business, I can count the people that belong in this category on one hand….

Clarity, Content, Coaching.....

2008-12-31T05:33:00.000-08:00

We all have dreams, aspirations, and desires to be something larger than current life. Whether it is personal or professional, we want to be more for ourselves and those around us.

Getting a handle on those dreams, holding them high and setting a course for making them come true seems to be where many of us begin to grind to a painful halt. That creates a sense of failure and causes aspirations to be shelved labeled as too big, unachievable, or simply….out of reach.

There is nothing better than the sense of fulfillment when one of these grandiose ideas comes into reality. You can only imagine how someone like Barack Obama must feel when he gets a quiet moment to sit back, reflect, and smile, yes smile about his dream coming true. He dreamed he could be President and with a lot of help he achieved it. It is the kind of smile you can actually FEEL.

How do people like you, me, and Barack achieve these kinds of dreams? We need help. Someone to guide, direct, and channel those thoughts and help us to create a strategic path. There are never too many dreams, just not enough plans. This is where your Coach can come into play. They listen, record, learn, and understand what it is you want to achieve and then work with you to establish a specific, time lined path to success. They drive you to believe, hold you accountable to achieve, and their success is grounded in arriving at your biggest outcomes! Coaches live to help others achieve what they have always wanted to do and don’t feel complete until YOU have done everything you thought possible.

Some call them mentors, some call them friends, some call them Coaches. Whatever you call them find someone to help you write down your dreams and let them help you bring them to life so that you too can FEEL your next smile.

Leadership - Born or Created?

2008-12-28T16:35:00.000-08:00

Now here is an age old debatable topic, “Is great leadership born or created?”

I understand why some believe great leaders are born as it just seems that some of the best managers, leaders, and owners that I have come to know over the years just seem to “get it”. No matter what the situation, they seem to know the proper response, get the social cues, can adapt to quickly changing emotional issues and tie it all together with great business decisions to finish off their own brand of top notch leadership.

Now for my answer……they are CREATED! I believe it is simply a matter of environmental genetics. Great leadership is taught by role modeling, coaching, business experiences, and the daily addition of wisdom and maturity. Listed below are some simple tactics (not all of them) for developing your own leadership skills and being recognized by those around you as one of the greatest!

Find a mentor – Who is the person you most admire currently? Contact them directly and share your desire to learn from them. Anyone that you admire that much will surely put you under their wing and help you along the path that you desire. Identify the values or behaviors that you most admire about your mentor and have them help you on a path that will add those behaviors to your leadership style.

360 degree evaluations – Talk to the people that currently work with and for you. Tell them about your desire to be an exceptional leader and that you need their feedback to improve your leadership. Now develop some questions that will best elicit the responses you seek. How about some to get you started:

1. What’s it like to work for or with me?
2. Do I provide you with opportunities and coaching to improve your own talents?
3. If there was one thing I should keep doing, what would it be?
4. If there was one thing I should stop doing, what would it be?

As you listen for the responses, SHUT UP, take notes, and listen as if your own mentor was giving you this feedback. Your peer or subordinate has a perspective and their perspective is reality…no matter whether you think they are right or wrong. And last, actually do something with the information you learn and change or improve from the feedback. Others will see you make the changes and be much more likely to share honestly with you the next time you need direct feedback.

Read, Read, and then read some more – Just an hour in your local bookstore or online bookstore searching through the business section, self-help, or management section and you are bound (no pun intended), to find some books that strike your current focus or thoughts. Do you hate reading? Try CDs for those long car rides or iPod downloads for your workouts. Need some titles? Ask you mentor about some titles that have stimulated them the most. Think of reading business and leadership books the same as a doctor reading the current medical journals. You have to stay current and constantly “Sharpening the Saw” as Steven Covey says. Hey, maybe you just found your first author to check out!

Engage in social networking – post your questions and thoughts on social networking sites to get others to give you some quick feedback. I have met some of the smartest people on these sites and many have helped me to solve some of my toughest issues.

Leadership isn’t born, it is created! The best news is that tomorrow is another day to improve your skills, engage those around you, and be the best leader you can be to your co-workers and employees.

Listen to learn, not to defend

2008-10-08T05:19:00.000-07:00

One of the skills we should all take time to be better at everyday is listening. Many opportunities pass us by each day when we don’t engage in “active” listening. There is a positive benefit to be gained from everyone you interact with on a daily business especially in your career or business. In the competitive world of business, people occasionally view listening, learning, and changing as a vulnerable or weak value. Some would say, well if I don’t stand up for my position or prove my point, I will get walked on or miss the next big chance. Every person you engage with achieved the level of their current position with an attribute or skill that is worthy of understanding!

So slow down, look the person in the face and listen. Close your mouth and open your ears. Slow your mind down and really try to understand the message that is being given to you. Set aside proving the idea that is coming out of the other person’s mind is wrong or needs corrective coaching from you. When engaged in active listening, practice these mental behaviors:
What is the outcome of this conversation? Are you here to learn something, be sympathetic to a plight, or help solve a problem – ask the person talking to you which one it is – this will give you a better foundation to listen from.

What is the topic?

Why does the subject mean this much to the person delivering it?

How can I better listen to understand what this person means?

Validate points back in the conversation – what I hear you saying is….. Then the person talking to you can determine if you are getting it and agree or reframe the discussion to present it better for you

Ask for specifics when the discussion gets off course or “tangents” away from the outcome you discussed at the beginning

And, if you just can’t keep your mouth shut…..take pen in hand, scratch pad and take notes about what the person is saying. This will force you to hear and capture the message.

So………listen to learn and not to defend

When you become a truly great listener, you develop a “mentor” quality that attracts people to you.

When you become a truly great listener your relationships, both personal and professional, become deeper and more satisfying.

When you become a truly great listener, your quality of life improves.

When you become a truly great listener, you learn from others, and this is where the best ideas come from!